So many times, we are not allowed to feel our disappointment when life doesn’t go our way. Our drawing goes wrong, we lose a sports match, and somebody tries to change the way we feel with trite comments like ‘Nevermind, it doesn’t matter!’ or ‘You can’t win them all – it’s the taking part that counts!’ The thing is: it really does matter to us and if you’d just let us be with our disappointment for a moment, you’d see that we can let go of our feelings when we are ready. We also learn a lot more from our disappointments if we can work out our feelings and we are not rushed to feel ‘fine‘ again.
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