by smileyadmin | Jul 21, 2020
Conflict resolution is an essential life skill. Conflict can be helpful as long as everybody fights fair. When people talk about things that upset or bother them openly, honestly and with kindness, they learn more about each other. This strengthens their bond. We want to improve our relationships, not hurt, hate or upset one another. Most conflicts are not meant to hurt on purpose and many are simply power struggles. Today, I’m going to talk to you about healthy conflict and how you can make that a sure thing in your homes and schools.
by smileyadmin | May 8, 2018
One Mum told me this week of how her teen texts her from his room to ask for a glass of water!! Yes that is actually happening. I’m all for using the written word when subjects are uncomfortable because I’ve successfully recommended these journals to lots...
by smileyadmin | Sep 10, 2017
This week, I’ve been doing some personal work on boundaries with the lovely Terri Cole. One of the things I’ve noticed is that I can set a boundary (this is progress as years ago, I didn’t even know what one was). Here’s a little reminder if...
by smileyadmin | Nov 6, 2016
Two simple steps: Listening and asking questions. Sounds easy but in reality, how easy is it? When your child comes to you with a problem or something that is upsetting them. How easy is it just to listen and not butt in or find the answer or ‘there...
by smileyadmin | May 18, 2016
I’ve been working with children who feel powerless to others. They don’t have the confidence to ask for what they need. This could be a shouty teacher in the classroom who doesn’t listen to them or appears to be constantly correcting them or a friend...
